Punishment and humiliation are two very different things, though they often go hand in hand. There are many instances in which humiliation is the intended punishment. One form of this is diaper punishment. Mara’s eyes get wide, and she protests wearing a diaper. She says she’s too big, and she can’t believe Jennifer is such a little baby in her pull up. Mommy gathers both her girls close and gives a big hug. She looks at Jennifer, and then at Mara, and starts to speak.

Binkie Princess (real name Jess) and her boyfriend practice this ABDL lifestyle and use it as a form of connection and bonding. Binkie Princess says one of her biggest criticisms from people is that she doesn’t live a normal life and therefore doesn’t contribute to society. However, she responds to this criticism, stating, Mommy goes over and hugs her stinky, filthy little baby Jennifer. “Oh what a good girl you are, I’m so proud of you. What a stinky little baby I have! And Mara, Jennifer is wearing a pull-up because Mommy told her to. It’s ok for her to do it, and I don’t want you making fun of her. Mara, if you keep making fun of Jennifer, I”m going to make you into a little diaper girl too!” Humiliation in the bedroom is not uncommon, and there are many ways in which partners use it to add excitement to their sex lives. In relationships in which one partner acts like the parent and the other acts like the baby, diaper discipline is a form of sexual role play designed to humiliate one partner (the adult baby) while giving the other partner (the adult mom or dad) complete dominance. It can be used to stimulate the experience, or as a form of actual discipline or punishment between partners. Mommy has had enough. She looks at her stinky little Jennifer, who she’s so proud of and loves so much, and then turns to Mara. “Ok little girl, I warned you. Now, you get to wear a pull up too!”There you go, you’ll get the exact same treatment as your sister Jennifer. Now lay across my knees little girl, so Mommy can give you the medicine your sister gets.” Mommy looks over at Jennifer. “My stinky little baby, can you hand me the medicine so I can put it in Mara’s bottom?” Jennifer waddles with her huge stinky diaper and grabs the medicine. She opens it carefully for her beautiful Mommy and hands it to her. Mara is already on Mommy’s lap, being so surprised that she did it without even thinking. Mara is hoping Mommy didn’t hear the gurgle, and says, “My tummy is fine Mommy, why are you asking?” Mommy reminds her that she and Jennifer both heard Mara’s tummy making noises, and wonders out loud if Mara is already going to make poopies just like baby Jennifer. Mara denies it, but her tummy makes another noise. Mommy and Mara look at each other again. In short, such punishment involves treating the child like a baby when they make a mistake or act out of line. In most circumstances, this involves putting a toddler (or older child) in a diaper after he or she wets the bed or has an accident. In more extreme circumstances, the child will be forced to wear the diaper all day and sit in their urine or feces. This disgusts and embarrasses the kid, ideally making them try harder to avoid having future accidents. Parents have also been known to send their kids to school or out in public wearing the diaper so that others can see, which adds an extra degree of shame. Controversy Surrounding Diaper Punishment She wants people to know that just because she dresses and acts like a baby on occasion, the majority of her life is spent as a so-called “normal” adult.

ABDLs are a group of people who have a fascination or obsession with wearing diapers, either as a result of a fetish or of a deeper psychological issue. It also could apply to a person who enjoys treating their partner like a baby. This person would be known as an adult baby “mom” or “dad”. This group of people often practices diaper punishment, which is a more nuanced fetish in which people enjoy the regressive humiliation of being treated like a baby. This fetish is relatively unknown and is only now becoming a topic that is being discussed more openly. Jennifer walks over to sexy Mommy and her pull up is slowly undone like a diaper, Mommy using it to wipe up some of the poopies before tossing it away. Jennifer seems a little embarrassed, but Mommy just smiles at her, reassuring her. Mommy thinks that Jennifer looks decadent, and loves when her little girl is just super poopy and stinky. She thinks Jennifer loves being humiliated, and mommy doesn’t mind a filthy little stinky baby on her hands. Mommy slowly uses a wipe, cleaning up her little girl, before spreading her open again. Mara can see her little hole this time, and watches as Mommy pushes another suppository up Jennifer’s bottom. While Mommy pushes the suppository up, a loud gurgle comes from Mara’s tummy. Mara has a funny look on her face, and Mommy smiles at her before teasingly asking “How’s that tummy feeling Mara?” That’s one of the biggest misconceptions, with people telling me that I’m not an adult – I don’t have a job, I think I’m a baby, I don’t do anything, I can’t take care of myself, but a lot of the time I’m very independent. I can cook my own meals, I drive, I do laundry, I dress myself, I take care of myself.”There is controversy around all types of diaper discipline. One of the major forms of criticism is the argument that having a fetish about dressing like a baby (or dressing another adult like a baby) is surely a sign of pedophilia. However, people in the ABDL communities vehemently deny any such connection between pedophilism and their fetishes. Oh, what an excellent little pull-up baby you make! Both my girls are super adorable! I have one little squishy bottom, and one squishy-to-be!” Mara looks at herself shyly in the mirror, then glances at Jennifer. Looking over at Jennifer reminds her of what will be happening to her soon, and she glances up at Mommy worriedly. Jennifer just squatted down in a pull up and has made a Giant Poopy Mess in her diaper, all while Mommy watched her and Mara walked in and saw her. Other people are interested in wearing diapers or acting like babies but without any accompanying sexual desires. These people participate in diaper wearing, but instead of being “punished” or doing role playing, they simply find comfort when in infant clothes and diapers. These people can be drawn to ABDL for many different reasons, and more and more people are revealing themselves as ABDLs. There are now entire stores devoted to this phenomenon, such as Tykables, allowing adults to shop for baby products for themselves. I think that the ABDL fetish will continue to grow, with more companies seeing the potential of the audience and creating products to appeal to their desires. Cribs, clothes, bottles, and toys all made for babies in adult sizes will be great products for people who practice this form of role playing and diaper punishment.