The Last Act of Love: The Story of My Brother and His Sister

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She would soon realise just how serious her brother's condition was. Matty was placed into an induced coma after having surgery for a traumatic head injury. After his operation, Rentzenbrink thinks: 'Surely someone this fit and strong couldn't die? Surely someone who was loved this much couldn't die?' Although the family were hopeful at first, he was diagnosed much later as being in a persistent vegetative state, and was unable to walk or speak again. Rentzenbrink charts his very slow rise out of unconsciousness, into periods of 'sleep and wake'. He was tube fed, and unable to make even yes and no responses. Matty passed away eight years later, in 1998.

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Your memories are a treasure I keep in my heart, but they can’t answer the question, why did you have to departVUONG: I did. I tried my hand at working on the nails, but I found - I discovered my greatest flaw as a artist. I had no patience (laughter). I realized patience was a skill I did not possess. And I think that's why I became a writer. Because when you're a writer, within a single sentence, a city can rise or fall. It could be daylight or nighttime. And if you write it, it's true. A couple seconds later, there it is. It feels strange to give this book a rating. How do you choose how many stars to give someone's tragedy such as this?

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And ever since I lost her, I felt that my life has been lived in only two days, if that makes any sense. You know, there's the today, where she is not here, and then the vast and endless yesterday where she was, even though it's been three years since. How many months and days? But I only see it in - with one demarcation. Two days - today without my mother, and yesterday, when she was alive. That's all I see. That's how I see my life now. Do not try to do everything at once. Set small targets that you can easily achieve. Build on that. Seek and accept support Cathy tells her story with such intimacy and love, that it became painful for me to read. I am extremely close with my brother and I understand that deep bond to 100 percent, so in a way this read was almost to close to home. But I enjoyed it immensely. Cathy takes me through every raw emotion of hers and she leaves nothing out. She was very honest about her feelings, the good and the bad, and I learned some things as well about taking care of a person in a vegetative state. I recently joined a virtual meeting hosted by Cardiff Neurology Book Club. The book discussed was The Last Act of Love, a memoir written by Cathy Rentzenbrink [1]. It tells the story of her younger brother Matty, who sustained a traumatic brain injury following a road traffic collision and was left in a persistent vegetative state. Set up a memorial in your home using items such as photographs, candles or anything that reminds you of them. You could also create a scrapbook or memory box filled with special memories and items that help you remember them.

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MOSLEY: You know, Ocean, though you've - through your work, you've also made not only other Asian American people who identify as such feel seen, but you've made queer people feel seen. And I'm just thinking about that foundational experience of being othered. It often stays with us for the rest of our lives. In any way, though, do you feel full from the accolades and people telling you that they feel seen through you? Remember as much of the good times as you can and know your family and friends are here to support you todayRemember, the intensity of grief does not last forever. The love you have for your loved one wi Grief may be so intense that you just want to withdraw or isolate yourself. Take time for yourself, yes, however, lean on those around you. Get involved in something - volunteer or set a project. Getting involved in work or some other activity you enjoy can keep you focused and offer a welcome distraction from your grief. If that activity is especially meaningful or helpful to others, you might find it also raises your spirits and strengthens your sense of purpose. Implore lifestyle changes She tries out a variety of answers to the inevitable “do you have a sibling?” question. If she tells the truth, no one will know how to cope with her. She lists the pros and cons of each answer. Language is part of the minefield. Later on, an annoying man tells her to “cheer up because it might never happen”.